All I Wanted

It's the simple things in life we tend to forget!!! It's the little things that money can't buy that means the most!

All I Ever Wanted...

I never wanted to feel like I had to beg for attention,

All I ever wanted was a guy to show genuine interest and affection.

Guess my love wasn't good enough,

All I ever wanted was for a guy to stick around when loving me got rough.

I never wanted to be this weak minded chick,

Having to ask for the things I felt I should've been getting,

All I ever wanted was to meet a guy who wasn't scared of one day settling down and committing.

Seems like the things I say go unnoticed and I get no response,

But it only bothers me because you don't see anything wrong with your nonchalance.

All I ever wanted was to not be ignored,

Listening is free so communication is something I know you can afford,

I rather you tell me to just leave you alone instead of distancing yourself when with me you got bored,

Leaving my most intimate thoughts unexplored,

All I ever wanted was to be appreciated, cherished and adored.

I didn't think I would have had to work so hard to get you to see me,

But I can no longer spend my time trying to beg and plead,

I shouldn't have to spell out all the things I feel, like we're competing in a spelling bee,

And if you rather we part ways then I'll set you free,

All I ever wanted was for the guy to decide if with me is where his heart wanted to be.

It would be nice to tell me the things on your mind,

Instead of me wondering and questing because you left our relationship status undefined,

All I ever wanted was a guy who was willing to give just a little of his time.

I'm not picky, it's the simple things to me that matter most,

All I ever wanted was a love that was all mine or well at least something close!

Well ladies, I don't have a story to tell today. This is exactly what I was going through and exactly what I wanted. Men, take note. Never forget to simply be there. Ask about her day or what's on her mind. Never forget to do those things that you started off doing in the beginning. Never get content. Keep dating even after years of dating and marriage. 

And then I came across this...

Mood: At Least (The Little Things) by Kelly Price

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

If A Man...

"Two things you'll never have to chase...true friends and true love!"


If A Man......

If a man wanted to be with you then he would

If he wanted to change for you then he could

If he wanted to love you he'll know a million reasons why he should.

If he wanted to talk to you then he would reach out

If you're the woman for him then he knows that in his heart without a doubt.

See if he wanted to spend time with you, dating you would come naturally

Showing you off and telling you how he felt would come easy

If he knew you were the one then being around you would put him at ease.

If a man wanted you to know what he thought of you he would tell you

You would never have to second guess your place in his world

Everybody in his life would know that you were his girl.

If this man wanted to spend the rest of his life with you then you would know

It wouldn't take years and years for him to propose.

He would wine and dine you like a man in love do

Send you flowers, plan trips, and randomly text out the blue.

See if you have to play games to get a man to see you or know your worth

Then maybe he's not the guy to share your time with here on earth.

When a man is ready to settle down he has the power to do so and not cheat

See when he's truly in love you'll be all the woman he needs

He wouldn't mess up where his heart truly wanted to be.

If a man wanted to love only you then you would feel it

He would reveal to you what lies within his spirit

He would show you just the man he could be and commit.

If a man was ready to be the man you needed and wanted him to be

He would admit everything in his heart, mind, body and soul to show you y'all reality

Satisfaction guaranteed.

Stop making excuses for what that man wouldn't or don't do

Maybe that man just didn't see himself with you.

See if a man wanted to be with you then he would

If a man wanted to change for you then he could

He would tell you a million reasons why he should.

I've been dumb before, young and naive. I've even questioned myself as a woman asking if it was me. Trying to figure out why I wasn't good enough. I've been in relationships and "situationships" that caused me to ask myself, "what I could have done better or what role did I play, how could I have changed to be the woman he wanted." But, as time goes on, I remind myself that maybe it wasn't me. Maybe he just didn't know who he was as a man or the things he wanted. Maybe I was too good for him and he wasn't ready to give me what I needed and what I deserve. At the end of the day, maybe I wasn't the woman for him and he wasn't the man for me. I do believe that if a man wanted to be with you, then he would show you his interest and pursue you.When a man wants you then you would be a priority and not an option. Ladies, myself included, we have to be patient. There's a man out there looking, praying and searching for us. A man willing to give us his all. And when the time is right, God will reveal that man to us.

See if a man wanted to be with you then he would

If a man wanted to change for you then he could

He would tell you a million reasons why he should.

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

My Love Too Good

Mood: A Woman's Worth by Alicia Keys.

My Love too Good...


My love to good to be misused,

And abused,

My love to good to be given away freely,

To someone who doesn't need it,

Who doesn't appreciate it,

But, yet mistreat it.

My love too good to be played with,

By a no good ass boy who didn't deserve it.

My love to good to be taken for granted,

Because you didn't understand it.

My love to good to be put on the back burner,

Because you're not man enough for one woman.

My love to good for me to be here trying to make this work by myself,

While you're out doing you and big kicking it with someone else.

My love to good for a confused ass boy like you,

You had my love and didn't know what to do,

So I'm over it, fuck you!

I knew it was too good to be true.

My love too good for you not to give a damn about me,

I can't make you open your eyes to what you been too blind to see,

Because you have no desire to give me what I need,

Or be the man I wanted you to be.

My love to good to be ignored,

You're not going to keep acting like my love doesn't exist,

Because your ass ain't shit.

My love to good for you not to be coming home every night,

When I decided to give you a chance I should've thought twice,

Because you got me questioning my worth wondering how did this become my life.

My love to good to stoop down to your level,

When I gave you all of me you should've been more careful.

Careful not to fuck it up,

But, your bad you're shit out of luck.

My love to good to sit around and wait,

For man who couldn't realize what he had before it was too late.

My love to good to even have to explain myself,

I will not prove my worth to you or anyone else.

At the end of the day,

There's nothing left to say.

Because my love to good,

For a no good boy like you!

Ladies, never let a man make you feel like you are not worthy. I am here to tell you now that you are beautiful, you are pretty enough, you are good enough. Never lower your standards for a boy, because a man will work twice as hard to reach your level and not bring you down to his. Always respect yourself and a man will respect you.
Men, pay attention to the things your woman says she needs and wants. Never make her feel less than good enough. Never bring down her self esteem. Never forget to put her first. The worse feeling for a woman is to feel like she is in love by herself.
For you both, always be positive. Be supportive. Give compliments when you see fit or just because. Always be open to listen. Never be afraid to admit the things on your mind and your heart. If there's a problem, fix it.
Sometimes we forget the simple things. Keep doing the little things that you did in the beginning to get the person.

And as for me, none of my ex's knew my worth. So, I am single because I will not settle. I refuse to settle.
"I'M NOT A ONE IN A MILLION KIND OF GIRL, I AM A ONCE IN A LIFETIME KIND OF WOMAN."

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.