LOVE TO ME IS......

Love to Me Is...

Love to me is loving without limits 

Loving without conditions 

Giving with no expectations 

Avoiding temptation 

And still caring when you are full of frustration 

Love to me goes beyond sexual relations

It's being supportive of the others aspirations 

Being apart of their inspiration 

Asking questions before making accusations 

Love to me consists of compromise and collaboration 

My love will be supportive and motivating 

I want love that's a great listener and outstanding communicator 

With endless, open and varied conversation

Love to me is taking all of each other's thoughts, feelings, and concerns into consideration 

It's signing up to be a lover, a friend and not an investigator 

Love to me is looking into each other's eyes with admiration 

Taking vacations with no particular destination 

Talking through and surviving the good and bad situations 

Going half on future generations 

Love to me is full of patience 

It's when your heart still beats for that person even after all the complications 

All the reasons we loved on yesterday should still apply every day 

Love to me is respecting boundaries and knowing your limitations 

It's laughs, smiles and celebrations 

And although we may have problems, we both should be happy by the end of the day 

Because my love doesn't come with an expiration 

I want a love that doesn't experience fluctuation

The kind that continuously gives me a tingling sensation

And still respects me when we're in two different locations 

Love to me is about exploration 

Gratification 

And appreciation 

The love I want and the love I give 

I just want that love to be very authentication

And not a pigment of my imagination 

Love to me should experience elevation 

And when it comes to the mind body and soul, love will be our stimulation 

Because love to me is loving without limits 

Loving without conditions!

This poem comes from the second book that I am working on, stay tuned for more poems like this one. This is a book about love from a woman’s perspective. Just what we picture love should or would be like once we fall happily in love. These poems reveal the thoughts of our inner hopes and dreams for our relationships. Just think about it…what is love to you? What does love mean to you? What type of love do you wish to give and receive? What has love done to you and for you? This book will take you through the great, the good, the bad and the ugly when it comes to being in love.

I hope you all have enjoyed KLOUD blog this year and look forward to continue reading them as much as I look forward to writing them. Your love and support has been great and to my loyal readers, you are greatly appreciated. My KLOUD Blog will be back soon. Merry Christmas and Happy Happy Holidays. 

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

A Special Friendship

This is dedicated to you, the girls that encourages and inspires me. The girls that has always had my back. The girls who've shared my pain and cried with me. The ones that I laugh with and pray with me and for me. I dedicate this to the girls that never made me question their intentions or their loyalty. I dedicate this to my real friends, well...my sisters. They will always be family.

You are always there whenever I need you, our friendship has been loyal and true. I can always depend on you to come through.
Whenever I am in need I count on you because you always have my back, your love and kindness for me is always on track.
Whenever I am down your encouraging words picks me up and makes me smile, our friendship is strong enough to last awhile.
There's nothing in this world that I wouldn't do for you, because everything I have ever asked, you've tried your best to do.
I know sometimes we may disagree but that doesn't cause you to turn on me, we have had our share of laughs and tears but I greatly appreciate the friendship we've built over the years.
Most females are messy and will easily let you down, but with you that's never been a problem and you're always around.
We experienced some ups and downs but we were there for each other every step of the way, from graduations, baby showers, childbirth, and weddings, we've always showed us for one another's special day.
I haven't met many females quite as loving as you, you're the type of friend that turns my frown into a smile whenever I am feeling blue.
No others have a friendship that can compare, the love we share is rare and always remember that whenever you need me, I will always be there.

Song: Dionne Warwick "That's what friends are for!"

I Love You All Ladies! Thank you for being a friend!

PS...The full version of today's poem will be featured in my first book! Stay tuned...

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

No More...I Choose Me

🎤 Me by Tamia

Sometimes you have to let everything and everyone else go! Sometimes you have to choose you! Put an end to whatever doesn't make you happy! Love you, date you, choose you! Be a priority in your life!!!

No More

No more tears after tonight
No more trying to make things right
No more trying to put up a fight
For a man who doesn't even try to act right

What's the point in trying to hold on to hope
When I'm left alone in my thoughts and trying to cope
Because if I ask, "are you ready to settle down?" the answer is always nope

No more planning things and trying to date
No more trying to piece together our fate
Too bad we couldn't get right because at one point I thought you were my soul mate
But I'm done because I can recall the number of times you put in the effort or even tried and it's not even enough to calculate

What's the point of staying thinking that you will change
Because things are still very much the same
And the fact still remains
You're too old to still be playing these little boy games
I rather set this "situationship" on fire and watch it burn in flames

No more ignoring all the signs that are there
It's quite obvious that you don't care
You have shown exactly what it is you don't want and I'm very much aware
Even if I took awhile too admit it, I know we're going nowhere
I've decided to wake up from this nightmare
No more pain, no more of this twisted love affair!

AND I FINALLY SEE THAT LOVING YOU AND LOVING ME DOESN'T SEEM TO WORK AT ALL! SO......


I Choose Me

I am and will always be me, deep down inside I am somebody.
I will no longer compromise who I am, I vow to never let anyone or anything else bring me down.
I plan to make time to accomplish everything that I've set out to do even if I have to do it by myself, because I believe in me and it seems that my hopes and dreams are all I have left.
I love me for who I am and not for what I try to be, I appreciate others for who they are and not how they try to impress me.
I've learned that no one could love and care for me the way that I do; therefore, I don't apologize for leaving behind people and things that I've outgrew, because when it comes to myself, things and I need and want, I always come through.
I love myself pass all of my imperfections, I love the woman, the mom, the person I'm becoming when I look at my reflection.
I can honestly say that I am proud of how much I've matured and the things I've accomplished because you'll never full understand the things I've faced and the obstacles I've had to overcome; so, I want to strive to be genuinely happy regardless of my net income.
See I'm choosing me and to have all of the things that money can't buy, like happiness, good health, family, friends and dry eyes.
From this day forward I hope to never cry again over failed relationships and guys that hurt me, because I know for sure that I would never break my own heart and I'm choosing to love me unconditionally.
I realize that it's okay and I deserve to take time for me, on some days, a quiet space, a glass of wine, music, or a bubble bath are well needed.
So even if I dress up and put my make up on and have no place to be, I'm choosing to feel and look good for me.
As of now I choose to love me, to care for me, to date me and to take time out for me, I don't plan to be anyone else except for the person you see.
That doesn't mean that I love anybody else any less, I just love me more and I want to start to give myself what I feel is the best.
And what's best for me is to start living my life stress free, I can't make everybody happy, and no I'm not being inconsiderate or conceited, I'm just choosing Me!!!

©2016.Kiara Giles.All Rights Reserved.

All I Wanted

It's the simple things in life we tend to forget!!! It's the little things that money can't buy that means the most!

All I Ever Wanted...

I never wanted to feel like I had to beg for attention,

All I ever wanted was a guy to show genuine interest and affection.

Guess my love wasn't good enough,

All I ever wanted was for a guy to stick around when loving me got rough.

I never wanted to be this weak minded chick,

Having to ask for the things I felt I should've been getting,

All I ever wanted was to meet a guy who wasn't scared of one day settling down and committing.

Seems like the things I say go unnoticed and I get no response,

But it only bothers me because you don't see anything wrong with your nonchalance.

All I ever wanted was to not be ignored,

Listening is free so communication is something I know you can afford,

I rather you tell me to just leave you alone instead of distancing yourself when with me you got bored,

Leaving my most intimate thoughts unexplored,

All I ever wanted was to be appreciated, cherished and adored.

I didn't think I would have had to work so hard to get you to see me,

But I can no longer spend my time trying to beg and plead,

I shouldn't have to spell out all the things I feel, like we're competing in a spelling bee,

And if you rather we part ways then I'll set you free,

All I ever wanted was for the guy to decide if with me is where his heart wanted to be.

It would be nice to tell me the things on your mind,

Instead of me wondering and questing because you left our relationship status undefined,

All I ever wanted was a guy who was willing to give just a little of his time.

I'm not picky, it's the simple things to me that matter most,

All I ever wanted was a love that was all mine or well at least something close!

Well ladies, I don't have a story to tell today. This is exactly what I was going through and exactly what I wanted. Men, take note. Never forget to simply be there. Ask about her day or what's on her mind. Never forget to do those things that you started off doing in the beginning. Never get content. Keep dating even after years of dating and marriage. 

And then I came across this...

Mood: At Least (The Little Things) by Kelly Price

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

If A Man...

"Two things you'll never have to chase...true friends and true love!"


If A Man......

If a man wanted to be with you then he would

If he wanted to change for you then he could

If he wanted to love you he'll know a million reasons why he should.

If he wanted to talk to you then he would reach out

If you're the woman for him then he knows that in his heart without a doubt.

See if he wanted to spend time with you, dating you would come naturally

Showing you off and telling you how he felt would come easy

If he knew you were the one then being around you would put him at ease.

If a man wanted you to know what he thought of you he would tell you

You would never have to second guess your place in his world

Everybody in his life would know that you were his girl.

If this man wanted to spend the rest of his life with you then you would know

It wouldn't take years and years for him to propose.

He would wine and dine you like a man in love do

Send you flowers, plan trips, and randomly text out the blue.

See if you have to play games to get a man to see you or know your worth

Then maybe he's not the guy to share your time with here on earth.

When a man is ready to settle down he has the power to do so and not cheat

See when he's truly in love you'll be all the woman he needs

He wouldn't mess up where his heart truly wanted to be.

If a man wanted to love only you then you would feel it

He would reveal to you what lies within his spirit

He would show you just the man he could be and commit.

If a man was ready to be the man you needed and wanted him to be

He would admit everything in his heart, mind, body and soul to show you y'all reality

Satisfaction guaranteed.

Stop making excuses for what that man wouldn't or don't do

Maybe that man just didn't see himself with you.

See if a man wanted to be with you then he would

If a man wanted to change for you then he could

He would tell you a million reasons why he should.

I've been dumb before, young and naive. I've even questioned myself as a woman asking if it was me. Trying to figure out why I wasn't good enough. I've been in relationships and "situationships" that caused me to ask myself, "what I could have done better or what role did I play, how could I have changed to be the woman he wanted." But, as time goes on, I remind myself that maybe it wasn't me. Maybe he just didn't know who he was as a man or the things he wanted. Maybe I was too good for him and he wasn't ready to give me what I needed and what I deserve. At the end of the day, maybe I wasn't the woman for him and he wasn't the man for me. I do believe that if a man wanted to be with you, then he would show you his interest and pursue you.When a man wants you then you would be a priority and not an option. Ladies, myself included, we have to be patient. There's a man out there looking, praying and searching for us. A man willing to give us his all. And when the time is right, God will reveal that man to us.

See if a man wanted to be with you then he would

If a man wanted to change for you then he could

He would tell you a million reasons why he should.

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

My Love Too Good

Mood: A Woman's Worth by Alicia Keys.

My Love too Good...


My love to good to be misused,

And abused,

My love to good to be given away freely,

To someone who doesn't need it,

Who doesn't appreciate it,

But, yet mistreat it.

My love too good to be played with,

By a no good ass boy who didn't deserve it.

My love to good to be taken for granted,

Because you didn't understand it.

My love to good to be put on the back burner,

Because you're not man enough for one woman.

My love to good for me to be here trying to make this work by myself,

While you're out doing you and big kicking it with someone else.

My love to good for a confused ass boy like you,

You had my love and didn't know what to do,

So I'm over it, fuck you!

I knew it was too good to be true.

My love too good for you not to give a damn about me,

I can't make you open your eyes to what you been too blind to see,

Because you have no desire to give me what I need,

Or be the man I wanted you to be.

My love to good to be ignored,

You're not going to keep acting like my love doesn't exist,

Because your ass ain't shit.

My love to good for you not to be coming home every night,

When I decided to give you a chance I should've thought twice,

Because you got me questioning my worth wondering how did this become my life.

My love to good to stoop down to your level,

When I gave you all of me you should've been more careful.

Careful not to fuck it up,

But, your bad you're shit out of luck.

My love to good to sit around and wait,

For man who couldn't realize what he had before it was too late.

My love to good to even have to explain myself,

I will not prove my worth to you or anyone else.

At the end of the day,

There's nothing left to say.

Because my love to good,

For a no good boy like you!

Ladies, never let a man make you feel like you are not worthy. I am here to tell you now that you are beautiful, you are pretty enough, you are good enough. Never lower your standards for a boy, because a man will work twice as hard to reach your level and not bring you down to his. Always respect yourself and a man will respect you.
Men, pay attention to the things your woman says she needs and wants. Never make her feel less than good enough. Never bring down her self esteem. Never forget to put her first. The worse feeling for a woman is to feel like she is in love by herself.
For you both, always be positive. Be supportive. Give compliments when you see fit or just because. Always be open to listen. Never be afraid to admit the things on your mind and your heart. If there's a problem, fix it.
Sometimes we forget the simple things. Keep doing the little things that you did in the beginning to get the person.

And as for me, none of my ex's knew my worth. So, I am single because I will not settle. I refuse to settle.
"I'M NOT A ONE IN A MILLION KIND OF GIRL, I AM A ONCE IN A LIFETIME KIND OF WOMAN."

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.

FREE

1 Peter 5:7, "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you."

FREE

I just want to be free

Free from all the heartache and pain,

I don't want to be angry and bitter

I just want to authentically smile again.


I just want to be free 

Free from all the past oppression, 

I don't want to be mad all the time

I've realized every situation doesn't need a reaction.


I just want to be free 

Free from the hold hostility has over me,

I don't want to continue to be mean 

I just want to live my life in peace.


I just want to be free

I don't always mean to be rude,

I don't want to end up old and lonely

I just want to work on my attitude.


I just want to be free 

I promise I really do mean well,

I have a heart of gold 

But somewhere I fell under Satan's wrath spell.


I just want to be free 

I have to get well for my daughter, 

I don't want her to see the fury side of me 

She needs to remember all the amazingly pleasing things I've taught her.


I just want to be free 

I know I'm a good person and a great friend,

I'm don't want people to be afraid to be around me 

I'm choosing to put the wicked side of my personality to an end.


I just want to be free 

I don't like pushing those that love me away,

I'm tired on holding on to those that hurt me

I just need to take time to pray.


I just want to be free 

Lord, I ask that you help me,

Give me the things I need 

That'll allow me to break free,

Free from my unpleasant temper 

So me and those around me can be genuinely happy.

I just want to be free!

At some point in life you have to grow up. Maturity doesn't always come with age. But, as I've gotten older, I have learned that maturity comes with knowing, admitting and accepting your flaws. Maturity comes with knowing when it's okay to be quiet (every situation does not need a response). Maturity comes with knowing how to react to certain actions, meaning every action doesn't calls for a reaction out of you. See, I'm choosing to work on me. It is funny that everyone can tend to point out everyone else flaws and problems but their own. Me personally, I have my own issues. No time to worry about anyone else's. Most times the people with the least room to talk always has the most to say. But, I say that change starts with you. The only person that I am in competition with or trying to be better than is the one that is looking back at me when I look in the mirror. When I decided that I wanted to be genuinely happy, I decided to just let it all go. I know that my attitude is not the best and I am not always the nicest person, but I am owning it and I am willing to change it. There are things and people that has hurt me and I was holding on to that anger, still asking why and what if, but I forgive them and I am moving on. I am choosing to use my bitter to make myself better. The past will no longer hinder me. I'm making a pledge to change. At some point in life some things are no longer cute and other things don't really even matter anymore. At some point in life you have to grow up!

Job 17:9,"The righteous shall move onward and forward; those with pure hearts shall become stronger and stronger."

©2016. Kiara Giles. All Rights Reserved.